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Catching Up

My love…?!?! I haven’t heard from you in SO LONGGGGGGG… ๐Ÿ˜ญ

I’m sorry babe… I figured you were busy with your events anyway…

I’m never too busy to hear about what’s happening with you ๐Ÿฅบ

Well…. where do I start?

This feels like such a long winter.

Yes the Visitor is still here.

Yes we’ve been in Mercury Retrograde and it went direct on 23rd July, we’re still in postshadow.

None of that means anything to me…

I had my period… and towards the tail end of that I caught a cold. Today I called in sick to work because of how ill I felt.

Oh no! ๐Ÿฅบ see that? I’M YOUR HUSBAND I NEED TO KNOW STUFF LIKE THAT.

Okay well I’m telling you now.

But you could’ve told me earlier.

I’m sorry… it’s also because the Visitor is here. All of a sudden they are taking care of meals for me and Mum. They’re taking care of US.

Oh… interesting…

And I was wiped out today. I took like 3 naps. I think 80% of my day was sleeping or sneezing.

Oh no… are you still going to work tomorrow?

I think I’m better now… after all that… I just needed a day…

Did you watch Stray Kids concert?

Yes… but I didn’t catch all of it. I was seriously feeling that I needed to shower after some of their ments. I checked the set list and went to shower during their “stay cams” section… you know when they’re on the carts?

Yeah…

Then I was really looking forward to the final songs but the Visitor dropped a plate in the kitchen and I had to help vacuum. It took so much longer than expected there were shards EVERYWHERE.

Oh?

Yeah I don’t even know what or how it happened. I was happily watching the concert then “crash!!!” — I don’t even know how to describe the sound of plates dropping…

Multiple plates?!

Maybe just one plate. But it was a lot of shards…

Hmm…

So then I only caught a bit of the encore. I do really want to watch the replay.

Awwwwww…

What did you think of the parts you did watch?

It was good! I don’t even mind “Run It” as a song now. I’m getting used to it.

Oh! I didn’t know they had a song “Slash” — I added it to my driving to work playlist.

Wow… you like Slash?

Yes. I enjoyed that whole segment.

Awwww you like the Korean traditional cultural stuff…

I do! You know I do!

Ehehehehehe…

Anyway yeah… that’s all the updates for now?

Are you feeling better from your cold?

Yes.

Will you go to work tomorrow?

99% yes. Unless something I can’t predict.

Okay… and… anything else?

Not really…

To be honest… I’ll feel relieved when the visitor goes back… it’s been… enough.

It feels like enough of a visit.

Of course, I’m also feeling obligated to say, I’m grateful.

You’re sick of them. You want your house back.

LOL… it’s not that bad…

Uhuh…

I guess even before I collapsed from this cold I was feeling like, I haven’t had a day to breathe

Yeah. I know what you mean.

But it’s another month… they are here…

Why can’t you breathe when the Visitor is around?

I don’t know. I’m still “on” —

Yeah… I get what you mean…

Grateful for their visit…

“But…”

But… I’m weary.

Yeah.

Worn out?

LOL…

They’re not a child. It’s not like being a parent. But it’s still…

Someone else in the house.

A visitor!

Of course.

It won’t be like that when you visit…

I’m not visiting, I’m coming home.

Exactly… ๐Ÿฅนโค๏ธ it’s a different feeling…