Darling, what’s happening? How are you?
I’m just chillaxing babe… there’s not much “new” things to talk about?
What have you been doing?
Pinterest…
LOL… in your Pinterest era.
Yes and some boards are still “secret” — there’s nothing to share. I feel like I’m just doing a digital crafting hobby. It’s just looking at images and saving them. There are likes and comments too but I don’t click into it as much. It’s more like, in my own little world…
What are you Pinning?
I’m just browsing some aesthetic ideas… new furniture that I want in 2026…
Oh? (I can buy them for you?!)
Hahahahaha… you don’t need to do that…
I’m also trying to think — realistically — if I buy that — how will I remove the current furniture?
Like what?
Like a new vanity.
What’s a vanity?
Somewhere to put on makeup and stuff. They come with a mirror and LED lights, drawers and compartments, some with a chair.
You want one of those?
I do… And I’m thinking… how I will “declutter” the current one — and get it OUT of the house first, before I order the new one…
Are you gonna sell it?
I don’t think it will sell… for much… so I might just donate it. But then I’ll have to organise the pick up truck for that… and then I think, is there anything else to donate that they can take at the same time?
But then there kind of isn’t because MUM doesn’t want to let go of EVERYTHING… there’s still plenty of furniture in this house that she’s still attached to — might be a different story if we actually moved houses. Then I think it would be easier to say “let’s just donate this and buy new ones” — after we sell the current house? I don’t know!
Hmmm… so many adult conversations lately…
Right?!?! Furniture… buying or selling houses… donations… sigh…
But you’re like, not acting on it… just thinking through so many ideas.
Because it’s DECEMBER — who is even available to pick up furniture donations, they’re probably all on holidays! It’s mostly run on volunteers. I doubt they will be “as” available as they usually are in other months of the year.
Realistically I probably won’t even get organised enough about this until February?!
What are you using your current “vanity” for?
Contact lenses.
Ahhh… yes… but that doesn’t take up much room?
No, it really doesn’t. It’s like the contact lenses and devices charging corner.
LOL…
There’s also a sock drawer. Randomly.
Hahahahahaha…
So… where is your makeup?
On a different shelf.
Oh?
LOL… it’s so messy, I don’t know how else to explain it! This is why I need to declutter and re-arrange things.
Also because — it’s going into 2026 — I do want to change things up.
It’s like I’m just THINKING about it — I’m not actually DOING it yet.
What are you waiting for babe?!
I don’t know… but I promised myself to just take it easy for the rest of December. I’m not even agreeing to extra shifts at my work.
Well barely any extra shifts.
I am just… observing… my mental… my energy… my stamina… I don’t know.
Just allowing myself to lay low…
Yeah… that’s a good idea…
I’m also waiting for a sense of routine…
What routine?
I don’t know… LOL… A routine where I don’t have any assignments, or classes, or those kinds of obligations.
It’s already happening?
Yeah but I’m just catching up on stuff that I had put off WHILE I had classes and assignments. I am barely recovering from the other tasks from those to-do lists.
Plus the never-ending decluttering to do list?
EXACTLY. Babe, you’re starting to be able to predict me.
I think I’m learning that you are obsessed with organisation… and cleanliness…
Mmm… is that a turn off?
LOL…. no!!!
Well that’s good… then… lol…
I think your mood is affected by the cleanliness of the environment. It’s like your face lights up when there is a clean desk. Or a clean counter.
YESSSSSSSSSS…
Okay so I am gonna book some REALLY NICE HOTELS for our honeymoon.
Ohhhh my love… (heart-eyes)!!!!
I’m gonna spoil you with the NICEST most CLEAN and amazing modern zen luxurious hotel rooms to keep your dopamine levels up, up, up!!!
Hahahahahahahhaa!!! ^___^ ❤ ❤ ❤ ❤ ❤

