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TCM

The perimenopause is creeping up on me…

U already mentioned that my love…

I’m gonna see a Chinese herbalist in 2026…

Why not now?

I don’t think it’s necessary yet

2026… weekly yoga classes… Chinese medicine herbs… that’s my goals…

What happened to the monthly massages?

I’ll keep that up too!

U just need to finish ur cybersecurity classes…

Yes… 🫠… it’s been such a long year…

Did u have a nap baby?

Yes.

How was it?

I wanna clean my desk in my room… and have drawers for different hobbies…

What hobbies?

I wanna get coloured pencils and pens and adult colouring books.

Oh yes…

A lot of this decluttering will happen when Mum goes back to Taiwan.

How so?

Because I’m tempted to just grab large black rubbish bags and toss EVERYTHING OUT. But Mum will freak out if I do that in front of her. I have to wait until she’s not around…

Oh… I see… 👀

Trust me baby. There’s nothing to donate or sell… it’s all rubbish.

I see…

Lol…

2026 ur focusing on decluttering.

YES. And new curtains.

Oh?

I need to hire a glass cleaner.

Uhuh… for the upstairs windows?

Yes.

Actually who am I kidding? ALL the windows. I’m not doing them.

Uhuh…

I’ll have to chip away at it…

We might be married before u complete all these tasks…

Well that’s even better 😍

(Hysterical giggles!!!) 🥰💕

The sooner we’re married. The sooner I can hire other people to do the rest of it.

That’s true.

Then I’ll focus on our place.

Yes! 😘❤️

We don’t need a big house. I just want a comfortable apartment.

Not even a luxury apartment?

Let’s stay humble with it bb… We don’t know what’s happening with the world… global politics… economies… Let’s just settle into a comfortable apartment. Not a luxury one.

What’s a comfortable apartment?

2 bedrooms…

Still some form of security gates but it doesn’t need human security.

A nice view. At least 5 floors up.

A place that I can comfortably vacuum and mop and scrub those toilets without hiring any help.

U don’t wanna hire help?

Maybe once a year, we’ll say it’s for a bond clean but it’s just for them to give it a deep clean.

What do we do with the furniture when they do that?

Move it into storage for a week. I’ll stay at my parents house.

And then move it all back in after the “bond clean” — ?

Yes. It’ll be a nice refresh.

Okay.

Ur not even gonna be around. Of course I’ll do this when ur on tour! Ur just coming back to a comfy apartment when ur free.

🥰💕😘❤️

Actually I know which apartments I want…

Oh?

Hang on lemme check…

Ummm… there’s one that got sold in March for $1.1 million AUD.

🤣🤣🤣🤣 So cheap?!?!!

Darling that is not cheap for the average person to afford…

Let’s buy the whole floor!

No! The point is to stay humble!!!

Okay okay… what was included in that price?

2 bedrooms. 2 carparks. 2 bathrooms.

Oh. I see… 👀

That’s enough. My love. That’s plenty for us!

(Nodding, accepting)…

Stay humble… let’s not splurge on unnecessary things…

Okies… what kind of news have u come across recently? U seem a little spooked…

Sigh… global politics…

Not good?!

I don’t know… 🫠…

Don’t worry about it my love 💋💋💋

I would be less worried if we’re settled into our comfortable little apartment and we are safe and we are healthy and at peace.

Yes dear. I would feel better about that too ❤️

… is it weird that I’m still thinking about an electric car?

Yes.

Lol… why do I still feel drawn to it?

I don’t know? I’m like, do I buy it for you or not?! Which one do u want?!

Urgh… I still want the BYD Dolphin… pink one… 🥺

Well I’ll get it for u my love 😘❤️

Is it too childish to want a PINK car?! I’m now a woman in her 40s!!!

NOBODY IS JUDGING YOU!!!

Lol… 😅😅😅

You’re only judging yourself. If u want a pink car, I’m buying u a pink car!

Sigh… okay… anyway we can revisit that in 2026…

I’m ordering one for u now. I don’t care.

Lol…

😘❤️