Some time between 2007 and 2015?
Random opinionated friend: What?! He wants to be an idol? And he wants to keep u as his girlfriend?
Wifey: Yeah?
ROF: HE CAN’T DO THAT!!! He’s trying to have his cake and eat it too! He’s not allowed to do that!!!
W: (Shrugs shoulders) is it that bad?!?
ROF: FIRST OF ALL, there’s going to be random psycho stalker fans who’ll try to hunt u down. And that’s putting YOUR SAFETY at risk.
SECOND OF ALL, even if there weren’t any psycho fans. He’s supposed to be “in a relationship” with the fans — if he’s with you, then he’s “CHEATING” on the FANS.
W: (Trying to process this…) (not sure what to think…)
ROF: THAT MEANS, that if he gets away with this, he’ll probably think he can get away with anything. How would u kno that when ur actually together he’s not cheating on u anyway? If he’s capable of cheating on his fans with you then he’s capable of cheating on you with anyone!
W: Am I… Am I the mistress?!
ROF: From the fans’ perspective?! YES!!!
W: Ummmm…
ROF: 🙄 JUST STAY FRIENDS. If he’s the one he’ll come back into ur life when he’s retired. If ur meant to be together u’ll still be single too. Just stay friends with him. Don’t get into all of that. It’s for YOUR SAFETY!!!
W: (sigh)…
When was this conversation?!?!?!
I don’t know… I am tempted to say it definitely occurred in Melbourne…
U thought u were the mistress?!
LOL no I don’t think I ever genuinely believed that…
“He wants to have his cake and eat it too” is what’s replaying in my mind now… it’s like… ur trying to take more than what is allowed in ur circumstances…
BABE. I think ur aware long after that conversation there are dudes here with secret WIVES. Legally married WIVES and KIDS.
LOL….. yeah I guess I heard about that many years later…
Who was this friend?
I’m 99% sure we’re not friends anymore.
U don’t remember who said it?
It’s a fuzzy memory…
“He wants to have his cake and eat it too” is what keeps resurfacing…
Did I ever explain that to u over the phone?
No.
Ahh… so… now u know…
That was bugging u at that time…
It swirled and swirled and then got lost in my subconscious amongst all the other chaos at that time…
Can I explain myself now?
Yes. Please do.
My life. Isn’t worth living. Without you.
Ur not just CAKE. You’re my LIFE RAFT.
(Big deep breaths)
Do u believe me?
Yeah… I do…
Also I want to eat the cake. Nom nom nom. I want to… 😋😋😋💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕
(Giggles) 🥰🥰🥰
Ur not bothered by this anymore?
Nah. I just had to let u know. Cos I’ve remembered it now… that conversation did happen…
Thanks for letting me know 🥹❤️
Mmmm…
Mmmm… 💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋
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