I don’t want to psychoanalyse my parents and their marriage.
No. Of course not.
I can only say we as a couple are very different. And that’s a good thing. I’m very grateful that we’re not like them. We are us and we are in our relationship our way.
Yes.
I shouldn’t have to be my parents marriage counsellor.
Are they asking u to be?!
No. Not at all.
But u have been observant all these years…
Unfortunately. And I don’t want to be.
U wanna tell me in person one day?
(Nodding)…
What else can u tell the blog for now?
Well… … … … …
It’s their karma. Right?
It’s not ours…
Uhuh… …
Any decisions that were made in their past. I was just a child. I had zero conscious control.
U shouldn’t even feel any responsibility. U were literally a child.
I wonder why though — children of divorces feel like it’s their fault…
Your parents aren’t divorced.
I know. But even in a marriage with marital tensions it will have ripple effects on the children in the home…
It’s like they’ve never had the earthquake but it doesn’t mean an earthquake isn’t capable of happening.
That’s the analogy… earthquake…
Yeah.
I will never let an earthquake happen in our relationship 💋💋💋
I know. Thank you. I love you.
There isn’t even a possibility of an earthquake.
No?
It’s just not possible. My love has nothing to do with earthquakes.
I believe u ❤️
