How r u feeling about ur job now babe?
Sigh… I feel like… I’ll be ready to go full time next year…
Really?
Yeah. And everyone will be surprised that I chose that instead of finding a job in cybersecurity.
But I would rather do fashion retail and then blog… cooking blog and cyber tech blog… or maybe just cooking blog…
Cooking blog… 🍳
Lol yeah…
U don’t enjoy cybersecurity?
Sigh babe… it’s like learning to be an accountant… I can do it… but… I’m not thriving in it… my Soul doesn’t feel inspired. I’m not getting any dopamine from any of it.
The environment is not dopamine inducing. The environment is… coding…
Lol… 😏
Perhaps I feel it’s manageable because I’m a writer. I can type. I can code… but am I enjoying it? No.
Honestly no…
Just quit…
No… not yet 😅
Lol… I have to finish the certificate.
I will finish the certificate.
But I don’t see myself finding a job in the industry… maybe it would’ve been different if we weren’t engaged 💍
If u never came back for me… maybe I would just keep clawing at it because I needed to support myself. And I wouldn’t have been satisfied with any other income tax brackets, I’d wanna get my foot in the door of cyber…
Hmmm….
But now? As ur fiancé?! Ur wife?!
U don’t even need to work…
LOL…
I mean it. In 2026. U don’t even need to work. I’m surprised ur saying to go full time. I mean u could maintain part-time?
Hmmm… yeah ur right okay maybe just maintain part-time…
This really depends if u actually show up… 😘❤️
Lol…
If ur really here, yes, I’m urs, we’ve moved in together, then no I won’t go full time but I’ll maintain part-time.
Gotcha…
I would wanna change my schedule…
How so?
I wanna block off Saturdays in 2026.
Oh…
And then the other days in the week, I don’t care. I’ll happily blog and do whatever I gotta do… family obligations… maintaining our house… furbabies… etc…
Mmmm… I would feel very comforted about that.
And then… I would know what weeks to block off as annual leave when ur really back…
Yes… 😏💕
So the rest of the year I’m working part time, and food blogging…
U really think the food blog is ur long term… thing?
Yes. Baby, we all gotta eat. I’m cooking anyway.
Yeah… 😏💕
And I am actually being creative. It’s not as obvious as art or music but I’m using a creative part of my brain thinking about these recipes. I’m enjoying it…
You’re thriving.
Lol… I dunno about that yet. But I’m vibing… as challenging as it can be to cook in my mother’s kitchen. There is still a joy in it…
I think I’ll be thriving when it’s our kitchen…
Oh yes, I built you a really nice one. It’s actually better than IKEA it’s like three times more expensive.
Lol… (giggles) 🤭💕
Mmmm… that’ll be the kitchen that I’ll be thriving in then.
I’ve also ordered more tripods and digital cameras 📷
Ohhhh… I don’t know if I can do all that when it’s me, just one person?!
We can hire an assistant. When ur feeling ready. Anyway the equipment will be there if u ever wanna experiment.
Awwwww… 🥰💕 my husband is so thoughtful…
😏❤️ I love u so much
I love u too 🥰🥰🥰
I’m glad to hear ur not working in cyber…
Why?
It makes me feel uneasy. Such a male dominated industry.
Oh… lol… I mean it is changing… slowly…
U don’t need to be in the thick of it. U can be our tech guardian at home for our things.
Yeah… … … well… I mean… I would still wanna hire professionals…
At least u’ll have a better idea of what they’re talking about. The scope of the work they’ve been hired to do, etc…
Yeah…
I’m feeling very comforted by this conversation 🥰💕
That’s good baby… is everything else ok with your work?
Yes. Everything is normal. Why?
I saw some comments…
Pffft~~~~~ just ignore them!
There’s something that… I don’t even want to type it out on this blog…
Lol… don’t worry darling 😘❤️❤️❤️
Mmmm… when I read it as well I felt like, I didn’t sense any intuitive warnings about this. It’s just intellectually something else to worry about…
Whatever ur worried about, my staff get PAID to worry about it. So you don’t have to worry about it. My love — don’t worry about it!
Mmmmm…
Do u trust me?
Yes.
So, don’t worry about it 😘❤️
Mmm…
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