Back in 2007….
SF: So, what is this? What’s going on?
Wifey: Umm… I dunno? I think I might have a new boyfriend?!
SF: A new boyfriend?! He’s just a fling, isn’t he?!
Wifey: Is he?! 😳
SF: Well he’s only visiting for 2 weeks, how can that be a real relationship?
Wifey: I dunno, I feel like we really get along? I haven’t felt this way before?!
SF: But he’s on holidays! He doesn’t have work, he doesn’t need to study. Of course u get along! He doesn’t have any real stress in his life right now. Ur like the only single girl in his older brother’s friend group right now, he’s just using u for a quick fling!
Wifey: Really?! U think he’s using me? 😳
SF: It’s not a real relationship. He’s on holidays. It’s not REAL. U don’t have any stress. U don’t have any obstacles to overcome. U don’t know if any of his words will hold up. It’s just a honeymoon. Ur in la la land. It’s not REAL.
Wifey: 🥺 he told me… he loved me…
SF: It’s just WORDS. It’s not REAL. Look at his actions! He’s here on holidays for 2 weeks and ur so free to amuse him!!!
Wifey: (Creeping feelings of regret, embarrassment, uncertainty… inexperienced with these scenarios)… I… I’ve been used…?
SF: I just don’t think u should BELIEVE him. Sure, have fun. Women’s empowerment. Enjoy his company. But don’t BELIEVE him when he says he “loves” you 🙄!!!!!!!
Wifey: (Heart closing…) oh… I shouldn’t believe him… I shouldn’t trust him…
SF: Guys will say ANYTHING when they’re on holidays! None of this is realistic! I bet he still has traditional parents who want him to settle down and marry a Korean girl.
Wifey: I don’t think… his older brother ever said anything like that about their parents expectations…
SF: Well what about your parents?!
Wifey: Um… I haven’t thought about these things… 😳…
SF: Bla bla bla bla… (more sceptical ranting that I don’t even remember)…
Your heart started closing that day… it wasn’t me. It wasn’t my snoring…
Lol… it was multi-factorial…
Why did we even talk about the relationship to SO MANY PEOPLE?!
I wouldn’t do that these days…
I was so young and inexperienced… 🥺 I didn’t know what to believe…
I know.
I had a feeling… there was a conversation like that which played out… but I didn’t know which friend or how it would’ve been worded exactly…
Sigh… I don’t even remember which friend but I remember the “don’t believe anything he says, he’s on holidays!!!” Part very clearly all of a sudden… 😳
Awwwww… it’s okay babe… now we’ve come so far… (hugs hugs) 🥰🥰🥰
🥹💕 I need kisses…
Kiss kiss kiss 💋💋💋🔥🔥🔥
Well we do have stress now… plenty of stress, work and study? Even distance between us…
Yes and I still want u. It doesn’t matter if I’m on holidays or at work or anywhere else in the world. I want YOU. You’re my other half!!!
🥹❤️ It’s real love…
😘😘😘😘😘😘😘❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
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