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Morning

How r u this morning my love?

I’m okay… I just think… my mother is mentally ill…. ðŸĪŠ

Umm… did u two fight about something? 😅

Sigh not exactly… she has her own mental problems…

What problems?

My love. We have to learn to separate from her problems.

In the same way I am now numb to your fandom’s dramas… you will have to learn to completely disassociate from your mother-in-law’s mental anguish…

Oh? 👀

Believe me. U don’t wanna get sucked into this…

Okay…? I’m glad to hear ur now numb to my fandom drama 😅

Yes I’m numb because I have my own problems! My extremely neurotic mother is a whole other set of problems. I just scroll instagram to relax, I can’t be bothered with drama bait…

I see… 👀💕

I would love to see u genuinely immune to her drama in real life one day…

Oh… I’ll probably go into “fan video call mode” with a smile on my face…

Fan video call mode?

Yes! I’ll be very polite. I do listen — in order to reply — but I’m not really listening… 😅

HAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHA… ðŸĪĢ

Is that a good approach for your mother?

Yes. I think that is the safest approach. I don’t think ur fans complain about Taiwanese Aunties and their small dramas tho…

HAHAHAHAHAHHA… well, no they don’t… but I think I can apply the same skills to ur mother and her friends…

Yes… I think that’s the best way to emotionally protect ourselves in these situations…

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