Is my Mom a villain in ur story?
Honestly, no.
Really?!
🤣 I’m over all that stuff!
Was she a villain back then?
Not as much as my own older brother 😡😤
What…? 😳
Didn’t u kno? He gave me an earful agreeing with ur mother!
What……..
Everything u told me, about what ur mother said, about us, at the time. I told Older Brother. And he agreed.
What about ur own parents?
They didn’t know u existed…
SEE?!?!?! WHAT IS THIS?!?!? MY MOTHER KNEW ABOUT YOU BUT YOUR OWN PARENTS DIDN’T KNOW I EXISTED?!?!?!?
THEY DO NOW!!!!!!!! 😅😅😅🤣🤣🤣💕💕💕
What……. 😳
They know u exist NOW… but… like u said, let’s focus on us first… we don’t need to go into that so soon…
Sigh…
So Older Brother was a bigger villain for agreeing with my Mum?
Yes. She is older generation. She’s going to have conservative values for her daughter. That’s not surprising.
I was more disappointed that nobody saw it from my point of view. Nobody could see what I could see.
Mmmm…
Nobody believed that we ARE soul mates!
Mmmmm……… well… objectively…
I know, I know how it all sounds…
Even if we have daughters who started dating a guy and they came to us with the same story?!
I would say “he’s an idiot, break up with him”
LOLOLOLOL… OMGGGGGG… but u were hurt at the time?!
I just wanted validation — that we ARE Soul Mates.
Do u have that validation now?
YES.
How long have u had that validation?
I HAVE BELIEVED IT THIS WHOLE TIME.
Okay but like what other external validation?
When I saw u again last year…
Awwwww… from me?
Yes from u… but also… the bro that was with me at the time… Ur reactions really astounded him…
(Giggles)… 🥰💕
Okay but how does this relate to my mother?
I don’t blame her. She was being a protective parent.
Yeah but I was an adult.
Culturally, I get it. I accept it. She’s an Asian parent. I don’t blame her at all.
Oh… okay… 🥴…
Did u blame her?
I’ve had my fights and confrontations with her about u. I’ve written it all out on here, pretty much…
I feel like we’ve moved on from that as mother and daughter…
Honestly I think she’s just accepting that I’m not gonna be with anyone for the rest of my life now… “4B movement”…
Ahhhh… 4B… I forgot about 4B… 😅
Yeah? I guess she currently thinks that I’m just unintentionally part of 4B…
🤣🤣🤣 LOL…
Are u still going to wear ur ring? 👀
Omg it’s so weird… I might just wear it in another finger then change it to the ring finger when I’m out of the house…
WHAT?!?!?!?
It’s way too delulu my love… I can’t wear it like that in this house! Not until u really show up…
Hmmm… I guess I better lock in some flights… block out some dates in my calendar….
I THOUGHT U ALREADY DID THAT.
Lol… just being cheeky… 😘❤️
Ughhhhhh…
I am very curious to visit ur house…
Sigh… please… not so soon…
Why not?
Can we have at least ONE DATE that’s just us first? At least ONE day or night that doesn’t have to involve my mother so soon?!??!
Okay… 😏💕
Why ru so eager?
BECAUSE U SAID UR MOTHER NEEDS 3 MONTHS NOTICE FOR OUR ENGAGEMENT BEFORE WE CAN GET MARRIED. THE SOONER I GET TO MEET UR MOTHER THE SOONER WE CAN GET THRU THOSE 3 MONTHS AND GET MARRIED ALREADY!!!
Lol……. yeah… 😅 okay…
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