Virgo Sun Pisces Moon

Can we please talk through this a bit more?

Oh no, now I’ve really opened up a can of worms, haven’t I…?

Uhuh… 👀

…

So these were my percentages…

Didn’t physical touch used to be your number one?

I used to say that, yes…

What changed?

I don’t know… it’s just my results on this quiz! It would’ve been a different quiz to the one I did many years ago to get Physical Touch as my number 1 of the 5 Love Languages?

Do u think this one is more accurate?

I’m not sure…

I think I was also answering these questions thinking, Well if I’m in a long distance relationship…

Ohhhh… you set yourself up that way with the answers..

What?

You were answering thinking about long distance relationships…

Yes? So?

Can u do the quiz again thinking about when we live together?

Do I have to do this exact quiz? I don’t wanna pay for a report again. I wanna find a free quiz..

Okay. But can u find another quiz then do 2 separate scenarios: long distance, and living together. I wanna compare the results.

Sigh, okay…

So this is like a tentative ranking…?

Yeah, I guess so?

Or maybe it’s my mood tonight? I don’t know? Just because physical touch seems lower doesn’t mean I don’t want it! In fact, ALL OF THE ABOVE could often have been an answer?

Any expression of love, if sincere, is a love language!

Uhuh…

It’s about sincerity more than anything else…

Uhuh…

Ur… not listening..

I am… but I’m also thinking through some things…

Like what?

Like how can I start sending you nurturing communication in our current situation?

Sigh…

Why sigh, my baby?!??!! 🥺

U see? That’s nurturing. Call me ur baby. Or using “my love” or “darling” — that’s nurturing communication…

我喜歡被疼愛

I like being cherished… does that make sense?

But even at work? With random people?

That’s a fine line — If they’re not creepy, sure, ppl use “love”, “darling”, “sweetheart” etc — that’s fine.

If they’re creepy… (shudders)…

How do I know if I’m being creepy?

You’re not creepy, don’t worry.

But how can I know what’s the difference?

If you’re someone I’m not attracted to, trying to get me to be attracted to you, using those words — ew. That’s creepy!

Hmmm…

It’s also weird if it comes out unexpectedly from people I didn’t expect it from… but usually it’s okay if they’re not creepy…

Oh?

Yeah it’s just, I dunno, meh?! I shrug that off, I’m not thinking too much about it.

Oh I see…

Is this bothering u? Didn’t u just say that u can do all those things from the report?

It’s not bothering me… why? What r u sensing?

I’m not sure if ur cocooning…

Cocooning?

U’ve gone into a cave… a mental one… overanalysing the results from my report….

Uhuh…

The actual report turned out to be 145 pages PDF…

THAT’S WHAT I WOULD LIKE TO READ!!!

Well?!?! I’m sorry babe, I’m not uploading a 145 pages PDF onto here!

Ughhhhh… I wanna know more.. 

I barely even know this about myself? I’ve barely sat down properly to read the 145 pages…

Maybe I can go thru it, bit by bit, over the coming days..

If there’s anything else of note, I’ll find a way to summarise it on here, or give examples…

I’ll start to unravel myself based on that report, or at least use it as a gauge… how about that?

A gauge?

A gauage or a template? Some kind of relationship guidelines for discussion…

Okay…

We’ve still got time..

And do I really need to react after every single concert?

Or can u trust my reactions will remain, “10/10!!! I LOVED IT! U did great!!!” — ?

Mmm… u want me to just imagine that that’s ur reaction every time?

Yes because otherwise this blog is gonna get very repetitive… I think u would rather keep unravelling me, right?

Ur job is ur job. It’s gonna be on social media a lot over the coming weeks…

U look hot. The costumes and styling are what they are. I’ve already told u that u look hot. U look sexy. The concert brings a smile to my face. Every time!

🥰🥰🥰 yeah okay u don’t need to write down ur reactions every time… but a little bit? Teased in every now and then?

Yes I’ll see how I go weaving it in…

But the new focus is this report and how it applies to me in relationships?

Even more than Poems2No1…

Okay.

Oh?! No objections?!?!

Nope. I want to know how to maintain an emotionally mature relationship with you. I want to discuss this more.

Oh… you’ve shifted gears…

No. Actually, I haven’t. I just didn’t know how ready you were. I thought we’d take a little longer to get to these kinds of topics…

Oh? How come?

I don’t know… I just assumed… we needed to do more superficial stuff…

Aww… well… I’m turning 40 this year, my love…

Yeah. I get it… now… you act young, but you’re mature deep down.

Uhuh… it’s about damn time, right?!?!

😅 yes… for both of us…

🥰🥰🥰

💋💋💋💋💋 now I wanna make out…

U’ve been making out! With the camera!!!

😅🤣😅🤣😅🤣😅🤣 lolllll..

😏😘❤️🔥