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Chinese Name

What’s your Chinese name?

You already know it. I remember we’ve had this conversation.

We have? What did you tell me? Are you really sure it was me?

I am 1000% sure it was you. Yes.

I don’t know why, of all the memories, explaining my Chinese name to you, in that moment, remains very, very clear.

It wasn’t a dream? It wasn’t your delulu?

No. But maybe I saw you as a friend that day? That part I can’t be sure of… but I really do remember explaining my Chinese name.

What did you explain about it?

I was telling you because I was born a girl — when my brother was born, everyone was fighting to name him, and they had fights about his name! But when I was born, nobody fought over naming me. My mother named me herself because nobody else cared what my name was going to be.

LOL….

You’re laughing but you’ve been born A BOY.

😅😅😅

And for some reason, most people are impressed with my Chinese name. They say it sounds like a character in a romance novel or something. My mother chose a good name. It’s kind of, romantic, poetic… it’s unique in its own way… but it’s also a bit like “Charlotte” you know?! The vibes…

That’s interesting… what does your Chinese name mean?

In the most direct and simple English translation, my Chinese name means “Dawn”…

Dawn sounds very simple in English.

Yeah… but my Chinese characters are not simple. My mother managed to think of Chinese characters that represent like Dawn over the mountains in the early morning with a slight breeze — imagine those Chinese ancient history dramas where they’re in the mountains and it’s Dawn… my name kinda gives that feeling…

You mean like Crouching Tiger Hidden Dragon?

Ugh… if that is the most mainstream westernised example you can think of, sure… something like that…

Why do you remember me in this conversation, specifically?

I’m not sure!!! Maybe because my Chinese name feels special to me, too? Maybe not many people had even cared to ask? I don’t talk about my Chinese name that much.

In Australia, everyone simply accepts and prefers my English name as Nicole.

When I meet new Taiwanese friends or acquaintances, they’re not that curious. It’s usually just a simple compliment, “That’s a beautiful name!” “Thank you, my mother came up with that name” — and then they sing her praises.

You’re kind of the only person who’s ever cared about my Chinese name… like genuinely curious and cared…

I’ll always remember that moment between us ❤️ even as friends, you really cared…

🥰🥰🥰❤️❤️❤️

Would you let my mother name our kids as well?

Chinese names? Sure!

🤭💕

They’ll have Chinese names as their middle names then…?

Okay. And Korean names as First Names.

Why KOREAN names?! Why not English names?!

They can have English names as middle names too! But First Names — legally — are gonna be Korean names.

😅😅😅

😏 Trust me, babe…

🫠………. They’re gonna have very long names. Korean, English, Chinese, then the last name is also a merger of OUR last names?!

Wait, what?!

They’re going to have hyphenated last names of both our last names.

They will?!?!?!!?

Yes?!?!?!??!

Who’s last name is first in the hyphenation?!

Probably… my family’s…

Then mine is the REAL last name.

No it’s just the most commonly used, shortened last name. But it’s not the legal real last name which will have a hyphenation of both out last names.

🤣🤣🤣

Are you okay with that?

😏 Yeah. I’m okay with that.

Good… 🥰💕

Love you ❤️

Love you too 💓