Where are you going with this?
It’s the three main archetypes of a Woman.
Oh…? What’s a Man?
I’m not sure, I haven’t thought about it that much… maybe the Man is always Breadwinner?
Hmm… Breadwinner… Defender… Protector…
Yeah. Maybe… something like that?
Do you feel sad that you’re my “maid” when I’m away?
(LOL) No — I don’t feel like I’m your maid… do you SEE ME as your MAID?!!
No! I don’t at all! I don’t even know why you generated that image in the last post?!
I don’t know either, it was a bit hard to give the AI prompts for what that post was actually about, I was kind of lazy about it and just typed “french maid short skirt” as like a kinky sexy kind of archetype…
Oh… is that what you were going for… (LOL)
Yeah. I should probably just take the picture down, but oh well — it’s published now.
(Chuckles)
I used to see other girls… become live-in maids as girlfriends and wives… and I used to feel uncomfortable about it. I used to feel, “Ugh — I don’t know if I can be bothered like that?!” Like — seriously you’re SCRUBBING HIS TOILET?!!?! You love him THAT MUCH?!!?! I just couldn’t relate…
(Wide-eyed) So this is like a big deal…?
Yeah. It kind of is… of course, I’m used to scrubbing my own toilet. I’m used to scrubbing my family’s toilet. I’m even used to scrubbing the toilet at the Buddhist charity… but — for a MAN?!?!!? (Eugh!!!?!?!?!) — FOR. A MAN….?!?!?!?!?! Do you get what I mean?!?!
(Nodding) Men are ASSHOLES.
Yes!!! Men are such ASSHOLES and you’re willingly — not being paid — bending down SCRUBBING HIS FUCKIN’ TOILET FOR HIM?!?!?!!?!?!?!?!
(Shaking his head) — Don’t do it. Ever. We’ll just hire someone to come scrub the toilets. You don’t even need to mop or vacuum — there’s robots for that now!
No, it’s fine… scrubbing a toilet is… fine… if… I love him…
(Head kind of… drooping?! To the side?!) Really?
Yeah… I kind of understand those other women now…
You do?
Yeah. I do… I mean, it’s not like I’m like, “UGH! Why am I scrubbing the toilet for my FAMILY?!!” — I’m not like that at all. And also, since when I used to think that way — I’ve had pets! I’ve had a cat, I’ve got a dog — it’s just CONSTANT cleaning up poos, pees and even vomit when it was the cat. It’s just CONSTANT… I’m used to all that, now…
(Nodding) This is a much more… mature… Nicole…
Yeah… I guess so… I still haven’t lived with a guy before, actually…
Oh? Actually — I haven’t lived with a woman yet, either!
And we’re ALMOST 40?!?!?!!?!?!!?!?!
(Laughing together) Maybe we should try travelling together, first?
Sure… I don’t mind… whatever you’re planning… or we’ll find a compromise, as we always do…
What would be a compromise?
Well — Maybe I’m living with you — when you’re here… but… not yet there, permanently — when you’re not… maybe I just keep living with Mum and the dog, when you’re not even in Australia. But when you’re here… we’ll live together for that short amount of time… and it’s always a short amount of time. So I don’t think it’s even unreasonable to say that, well, I’ll go back and live with Mum when you’re not here… and then I won’t be as lonely, either…
(Thinking about this)… This is… before, we’re engaged…
Technically… okay…?
If we’re engaged — you’re living in MY house. Whether I’m there or not.
Oh…kay…?
Yes, yes!!! (Nodding) Once I’ve put a ring on it — bye, Mama! Love you, but BYE!!!
(Laughing)
She wouldn’t be too far away…
I know…
So yeah. Once we’re engaged — you’re living in MY house.
Okay… is it a house or an apartment?
Probably apartment… we don’t need a house until we have kids?
Yes — unless it’s Japan. Then Japan — a townhouse would be nice, because it’s so densely populated, I want a bit of SPACE in Japan…
Yes… (Chuckles) I knew that… I was just speaking in terms of Australia. We’ll most likely live in an apartment in Australia…
Okay. Cool. Yeah. I don’t mind that…
Because Australian cleaners are EXPENSIVE and I don’t want to pay for cleaners in a BIG HOUSE that you’re the only person staying in and what?! They’re coming once a fortnight to clean like EIGHT BEDROOMS AND BATHROOMS?! FOR WHAT?!?!
(Chuckles) Yeah… we don’t need that…
Apartment is good in Australia. It sort of reminds me of Asia but it has Australian views which are better…
Australian scenery — ocean views…
Yeah. Or maybe Brisbane city…
Maybe…
Anyway, it wouldn’t be difficult for you to maintain an apartment by yourself, even with fortnightly help — that’s why I only want an apartment if it’s just the two of us.
Okay? Yeah. I think I can live with that…
(Smiles) xoxoxoxoxoxox
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