Virgo Sun Pisces Moon

So how do we know that it doesn’t really happen the other way around? How do we know if Taylor Swift doesn’t allegedly financially abuse Travis Kelce?!

ALLEGEDLY. ALLEGEDLY. EVEN FOR A FICTIONAL BLOG. THIS IS FUCKING ALLEGEDLY AND FOR ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES!!! (What the FUCK?!?!!?)

Yeah — okay — without highlighting any particular celebrities —

You just did?!

Okay but that’s just ONE example — okay — what if a Billionairess financially abused her boyfriend? Who was “only” a multi-millionaire?! (Sarcasm) — Then what?!

Then society will have to start being aware that it is, also possible — the other way around. It IS possible — I’m not saying it’s not. There’s probably real social workers who do know what the realities are. I’m just saying it’s still not statistically significant enough for everyone to be collectively conscious of it as an issue — globally. It’s a miniscule statistic, globally. It would even be a miniscule statistic in Australia, or America, or any other Western country. Let alone Asian countries… even if I use Taiwan as an example… Is it POSSIBLE that it’s happening right now? In Taiwan? With the earning power of some Taiwanese women? Sure… it’s POSSIBLE… but it wouldn’t be statistically significant enough.

Okay, but like — then what? How does the man protect himself?

He’s usually — physically — already a more dominant power.

Okay, well, what if he wasn’t?! What if he was in a wheelchair?

Okay… so in your hypothetical scenario… a Billionairess is married to a Multi-Millionaire in a wheelchair…

Yes?! So what?! You don’t think a person who uses a wheelchair could marry a Billionairess?

Absolutely they could. They could be… a Paralympian?! Someone like that? They could be… what’s that guy’s name? The genius guy? With the robot voice?!?!?!

Stephen Hawking?

Yeah. That guy. I mean, sure. Okay. A Billionairess married to… Stephen Hawking or a Paralympian…

Then what?

(Thinking) Hmm… well it’s the same! It’s the ratio! He can decide on his own ratio! Does he want to pay 5% or 10% or 50% of the home’s deposit?! Things like that! It’ll be different for every couple. Every couple needs to have these conversations to really work things out. And it’s what both parties are comfortable with. Both genders. This even applies to LGBTQIA+

I don’t think A’s need to worry about this.

Okay, this even applies to LGBTQ+

(Chuckles)

Yeah?!?!

Maybe…? (Shrugs shoulders) — PLEASE DON’T CANCEL ME FOR THIS CONVERSATION!

Yeah… my gosh… that was… a bit rough…

It was a wild ride… but I’m glad we got it out.

Are you thinking… it’s even possible… that I end up earning more money than you in Cybersecurity?

(Shrugs shoulders) Who the fuck knows? You could end up being the female Elon Musk of Cybersecurity one day?! Earning WAY MORE than what “I” do — Who knows?!?!

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHA…. I actually… I know this is my blog — and nobody will believe me — but I’M NOT HAVING THESE THOUGHTS, IT’S YOU!!! — Telepathically having a conversation with me!!! I know this sounds CRAZY — but it’s not ME and it’s making me laugh!!! Like I really wouldn’t “BELIEVE” that I’ll become a female Elon Musk of Cybersecurity!!! That’s not even my AMBITION with Cybersecurity!!!

Why not?!

Because… I don’t care about that business side… I’m not aiming to get into Cybersecurity for Capitalism…

Oh… I see… so why are you doing it?

For my own interests. For having a cushy corporate girlie work from home job…

Oh? You think Cybersecurity is going to be “cushy” — ?

Well — maybe just the lower level or middle-management roles… at the bottom ends of the ladder… still in a corporate, work from home situation — but not as intense as the guys (or women) at the top. Those in much higher leadership in the hierarchy… No, I don’t have ambitions of being those leaders at the top. It would be… crazy, anxiety-ridden responsibilities for me…

Okay, interesting… good to know… so where is your ambition, then?

In academia… if I get to a certain level in Cybersecurity, and then — perhaps a PhD? I don’t know… something like that, maybe… It’s so far away right now…

Well… if I get injured one day, I might not be able to earn as much money — temporarily.

Yeah… that’s possible… so why would you want to shoulder ALL the financial responsibilities? Why wouldn’t you want to let your Woman also take on a little bit — even if it’s just a tiny ratio — for richer, or poorer, in health — and sickness — that’s a two-person team. That’s inter-dependence.

Inter-dependence…

Yes. That’s what I want. I don’t want to depend on you. I don’t want you to depend on me. I want us to be an inter-dependent relationship. Married or unmarried, it doesn’t really matter to me.

It matters to me. I think the ratio skews even more, when we’re married…

Yes. Okay. Probably… if we’re in traditional roles… yeah, probably…

So I’m still the MAN. I still have MAN’S RESPONSIBILITIES…

Isn’t that… what you’ve been wanting?!?!!?!?!

(Nodding) Yes! I want it!!! I WANT TO BE YOUR MAN.

Okay?! (Chuckles) So be it…? I’m not stopping you from being my man! (Laughing)

Argh, I’m gonna dominate you right now (picking her up, taking her to the bedroom)

(Giggling and kissing and laughing)

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