Virgo Sun Pisces Moon

Our relationship was born at 1:30 am, 19th December 2024 in Gold Coast, Australia.

I’m not going to over-analyse patterns and aspects, I’ll just write out things that stand out to me.

This is our chart based on sidereal, and whole houses (old school Astrology). I don’t know how else to explain it, this is the way I learned it.

The only extra asteroid I added was Lilith.

So let’s start with… Sun, Moon and Rising.

At the core of this relationship is a Sun in SAGITTARIUS. In the 3rd house, the house of COMMUNICATION. This is like the general “vibe” of the relationship, and in a way that other people outside of the relationship can see as well. “Wow, these two communicate really well.” There’s always something to talk about. Something to joke about. Back and forth banter. Sagittarius being an explorer — could be happy to watch documentaries together, read various books, there’s always something new to learn and discover — whether together or physically apart — but always then sharing with each other when we do come together, or via distance. There’s a lot of curiosity and generosity with communication. Sometimes, it doesn’t really matter if other people are “listening in” because there are deeper meanings that is only shared between the two (which leads to Moon sign and other planets)…

The Moon is in CANCER in the 10th House (of ambition). There is a desire for home and family. And Mars is right there as well. (Mars, planet of War – conflict approach and resolution). So these two are simultaneously fiercely protective of home and family, and it is the CORE VALUE, emotionally. Even if you think “you don’t want kids” — if we have pets. If we have a pet GOLDFISH. If we have anything shared as a “family” — there is protection. There is fierce devotion. There is a guard up, immediately, at any sense of external attacks. The Cancerian crab going into its shell and being defensive. Don’t you even motherfucking try.

The fact that it’s even forming Yods with Venus and Pluto in Capricorn, in the 4th house… The house of home. Oooh! It’s getting spicy.

There is a hesitancy for too much of this to be in the public eye — Midheaven sitting between Cancer and Gemini… 9th house (religion spirituality)… Midheaven is the public persona. Slightly different to Ascendant (how others perceive you…)

So the Midheaven opposition to the Venus and Pluto in Capricorn in the 4th House — public persona — assumptions, really. Public assumptions are that this relationship is just about… SEXY TIME… LOL…

The Venus and Pluto are just way too sexy planets! Capricorn is super kinky (Maybe even more than Scorpros sometimes, people don’t realise this about Capricorns, LOL!). But the Midheaven energies direct the public perception to “look that way” — rather than realising, the foundation — the Cancerian Moon — providing so much emotional stability for a long-term partnership.

The Ascendant is technically in Virgo. I think in another chart setting it might even be Libra? So it is right there on the cusp. I feel intuitively it makes more sense in Virgo, because both our Sun Signs — individually — are Virgos. So, the Ascendant, rather than a public persona, is more like how our friends, family and co-workers view us. And to them, it is “That Virgo couple” — it just makes sense in their brains like that. It’s sitting right between 1st and 12th House… interestingly… I just think that is deeply spiritual. There is a full circle moment type of thing — it’s the wheel of Karma. It’s the beginning and the ending. If either of us were to ever leave each other, it would be for higher “Virgo” values and determinations that go beyond being part of a committed romantic relationship. Like someone is about to become a Nun or a Sage. Is what that is.

If you want to interpret it as Libra, though, there is also a sense of balance — a need for win-win situations. Justice between masculine and feminine energies. It’s not about one dominating the other. It’s about fairness. Compromises. Give and take equally. No matter how it may appear from the outside — no matter other people’s opinions. There is actually a balance, energetically.

Chiron is a bit of an Achilles heel. And it is sitting in Pisces in the 6th House with North Node and Neptune… 6th House is the house of health. No surprises there? Neptune and North Node are relevant to a sense of spiritual purpose — for the relationship. So there is a spiritual foundation and drive, behind the purpose of commitment to health — physical body, mental and emotional — for the sake of the relationship. Yet it is going to be a constant WOUND that is brought up, whether consciously by either individuals or by the Universe simply wanting to throw us more lessons. It’s always going to feel like homework. Here we go again… unfortunately… life gets hard when we get sick. Especially if we are over-working or over-promising in our individual careers. Burnout is very likely, and then taking that out on the relationship as a symptom of the bigger problem… (Not fun or happy!)

Chiron is directly opposite asteroid LILITH. In Virgo in the 12th House. This is a big test. This is always the biggest spiritual test for the relationship. It is an inevitability. Don’t act surprised every time it happens. It’s gonna be hard during Mercury Retrogrades. It’s gonna be hard during Full Moon periods. It’s gonna be hard — even if not the two individuals of the relationship — health and sickness with regards to extended family and friends — it’s hard. It’s going to be a spiritual challenge for the consciousness of the relationship. It is the big weight, the big load. (Are you ready for it?)

Some of the outer planets, I don’t think it is necessary to go into right now… it might be more relevant if the two individuals become actual parents. Because then it is a generational influence and dichotomy with the offspring. But to exist as a happy childless couple, inner planets are more relevant.

Mercury (planet of communication) in Scorpio in the 2nd House — the house of values. Scorpio — The Dark Lord of the Underworld. I don’t feel very surprised by this aspect, but maybe anyone else reading this might be like, “What the fuck?!” These two are kinda… weird…? (Yes, exactly!) LOL

It is a very, very small percentage of human beings on this planet who communicate with each other the way that we do. Who would understand each others’ communication styles the way that we do. And it doesn’t mean it’s better or worse, it’s just “our” way of communicating. We get it. And that’s all that matters. Yes, telepathically, psychically, through dreams, through creativity, songs, stories, pictures, images… memes… LOL

I would normally hesitate with Scorpio like it’s a dominating energy, but in this context. In this chart… I feel very comforted by it. Because of how challenging Chiron and Lilith are going to be. The strength of SCORPIO here in COMMUNICATION VALUES — it is necessary. It is the way out of the “dark night of the soul” that happens with the tests and challenges that will be thrown our way by Chiron and Lilith.

Have to communicate. I don’t care, through songs, through poetry, through paintings, anything. Gift giving. Physical touch. Telepathy. COMMUNICATE. COMMUNICATE. COMMUNICATE.

It’s not physical touch, it’s communication that keeps this relationship alive.

If you drop communication, the relationship is dead.